i have been tagged by liying to State the gender and 8 attributes you desire of your perfect lover. but perharps my entry would look more like something i look for in a boyfriend. perfect lover? something that seems so far away.
1)someone who is optimistic, makes me smile, makes me laugh. a guy who is like a girlfriend who i can chat with and call up(not meet up) 24/7. im not obsessive, sometimes i just feel a need to tell someone something late in the night. liying and angie and some others would know. because i sms them late at night.
2)someone with aspirations. like study hard in his studies. when given a task, does his best. someone who doesnt gives up easily. someone who is intellectual.
3)someone who is clean-cut.guys who are clean-cut always exuberates a certain kind of charm and they look smarter too. and clean-cut includes their personal hygiene .preferably taller than me, have swarthy skin like louis koo,haha. he does not need to have 6 packs but cannot too skinny or too fat. i see liao, i like can already. preferably someone like ..... liying theyall know what kind if guys i like.
4)someone who is able to gives me personal space. im someone who is committed to a cca when im in it. i will spend alot of time doing stuffs related to that particular cca. however, although the bf have to give personal space, coming to look for me during break time when im busy with cca would be nice. a simple sms to show that he is thinking of you is nice too, but sometimes actions speaks louder than words. that explains why i like to recieve handmade cards.
5)someone who makes me feel safe. they musnt be afraid of the things im afraid of. the bf must not scare me. e.g. jump on you from behind, hide in a corner and like jump on you when you walk past. suprises and scaring is different. judge it yourself. friends who jump on you is different from when your bf jumps on you.
6)someone who loves me and i love also .i decided to edit this post againbecause i was thinking about all i have written and realised that all of the criteria are useles if we do not love each other
7)someone witha stable income. not too poor, must can provide..
8)someone who is strictly a non-smoker. (if my bf is one, remember me abt what i wrote today.)
i will tag -->cheryl, sharon, angie, shing, my cuzzies(mel, manda, stef.), mok hsing yee and all the sec 4 sjab juniors w/o their significant half. what do we know about love at this age? i think luo zhi xiang fits all the above criteria. yes! he does. i just know it.
